“Our patience wore rather thin. Visitors do tend to chafe one, though impeccable as friends.”

— Virginia Woolf

5 April 1918
A Moment's Liberty (1990)
Context: Our patience wore rather thin. Visitors do tend to chafe one, though impeccable as friends. L. and I discussed this. He says that with people in the house his hours of positive pleasure are reduced to one; he has I forget how many hours of negative pleasure; and a respectable margin of the acutely unpleasant. Are we growing old?

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