“Well fitted for friendship is he whom men have not disgusted with mankind, and who, believing and knowing that there are a few noble men, a few great minds, a few delightful souls scattered through the crowd, never tires of searching for them, and loves them even before he has found them.”

—  André Maurois

Un Art de Vivre (The Art of Living) (1939), The Art of Friendship

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