John Ralston Saul The Doubter's Companion
"The disease of love."
"Venereal"
The Doubter's Companion (1994)
Quoted in: Peter McWilliams (1997) Love 101: To Love Oneself Is the Beginning of a Lifelong Romance. p. 23
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John Ralston Saul The Doubter's Companion
"The disease of love."
"Venereal"
The Doubter's Companion (1994)
“All desire springs from a lack, which it strives continually to fill.”
Terry Eagleton (1943) British writer, academic and educator
Source: 1980s, Literary Theory: An Introduction (1983), Chapter 5, p. 145 (See also: Rene Girard)
“Ultimately, it is the desire, not the desired, that we love.”
Friedrich Nietzsche book Beyond Good and Evil
Variant: One loves ultimately one's desires, not the thing desired.
Source: Beyond Good and Evil
“Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.”
Robert Frost (1874–1963) American poet
As quoted in a review of A Swinger of Birches (1957) by Sydney Cox in Vermont History, Vol. 25 (1957), p. 355
1950s
William Sharp (writer) (1855–1905) Scottish writer
Desire, reported in Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919).
“Could it be that to truly love a thing is not to desire it, but to desire happiness for it?”
Richard Paul Evans (1962) American writer
Source: The Letter
“I don't want to be loved. I want to be desired. Love is safety, but desire is foul.”
Hanif Kureishi (1954) English playwright, screenwriter, novelist
Source: Something to Tell You