“Learn to understand others. Most people do not want to understand others, instead wanting others to understand them. This is egotism. We should try to think less of ourselves and more of others. Try to understand others better.”

— Jun Hong Lu

Quotes from Words of Wisdoms Vol.2

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要學會理解別人。每一個人都不會想到去瞭解別人，都想讓別人瞭解自己，這就是一切以“我”為出發點。活在世界上，少想自己，多想別人，多瞭解別人。

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