“I pity bashful men, who feel the pain
Of fancied scorn and undeserved disdain,
And bear the marks upon a blushing face,
Of needless shame, and self-impos'd disgrace.”

—  William Cowper

Source: Conversation (1782), Line 347.

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(1731–1800) English poet and hymnodist 1731–1800

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