“This year, or this month, or, more likely, this very day, we have failed to practise ourselves the kind of behaviour we expect from other people.”

—  Clive Staples Lewis , book Mere Christianity

Book I, Chapter 1, "The Law of Human Nature"
Mere Christianity (1952)

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Christian apologist, novelist, and Medievalist 1898–1963

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