“Changing your ways, changing those surrounding you.
Changing your ways, more than any man can do.
Open your heart, show him the anger and pain, so you heal.
Maybe he's looking for his womanly side, let him feel.”

Shaking the Tree
Song lyrics, Shaking the Tree (1990)

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English singer-songwriter, record producer and humanitarian 1950

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