“The more you try to be interested in other people, the more you find out about yourself.”
“If you concern yourself with telling or showing people how interesting you are, you will at best provoke a temporary response of polite interest until even that gives way to annoyance. If you let people find it out for themselves, you become a real source of fascination.”
Books, Tricks of the Mind (2006)
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“Love you will find only where you may show yourself weak without provoking strength.”
Breaking Cover https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Special:BookSources/0671245481 (1980), p. 25
Variant: You can make more friends in two months by being interested in them, than in two years by making them interested in you.
Source: How to Win Friends and Influence People (1936), p. 52 (in 1998 edition)