“All one's life as a young woman one is on show, a focus of attention, people notice you. You set yourself up to be noticed and admired. And then, not expecting it, you become middle-aged and anonymous. No one notices you. You achieve a wonderful freedom. It's a positive thing. You can move about unnoticed and invisible.”

As quoted in An Uncommon Scold (1989) by Abby Adams, p. 18

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British novelist, poet, playwright, librettist, biographer … 1919–2013

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