

“To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart.”
Quotations from Gurudev’s teachings, Chinmya Mission Chicago
“To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart.”
“We do not handle suffering. Suffering handles us.”
Source: Adam's Return: The Five Promises of Male Initiation
As quoted in "Life of Eugene V. Debs" by Stephen Marion Reynolds, in Debs : His Life, Writings and Speeches (1908) edited by Bruce Rogers and Stephen Marion Reynolds, p. 71
Context: I am not a Labor Leader; I do not want you to follow me or anyone else; if you are looking for a Moses to lead you out of this capitalist wilderness, you will stay right where you are. I would not lead you into the promised land if I could, because if I led you in, some one else would lead you out. You must use your heads as well as your hands, and get yourself out of your present condition; as it is now the capitalists use your heads and your hands.
“I used to do the rap [on Bring Me To Life], but people could not handle my flow.”
Music and business
“Using your head to manage your life = creativity constipation.”
19 July 2012 https://twitter.com/gtdguy/status/226141872467369984
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During the Bed-In for Peace in Montreal, Canada (1 June 1969) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_oJ9w0x_dzo