“He said that in his whole life he most repented of three things: one was that he had trusted a secret to a woman; another, that he went by water when he might have gone by land; the third, that he had remained one whole day without doing any business of moment.”

—  Plutarch

Life of Marcus Cato
Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919)

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