“Our stories are funny because we lived them, and we survived them. The worse the incident was when it was happening, the funnier the story had become to us over the years.”

—  Nicholas Sparks

Nicholas Sparks, Chapter 16, p. 303
2000s, Three Weeks with My Brother (2004)

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