“How is a man to find where he belongs in life? The more original he is, the less likely is he to find his place prepared for him. He must not expect to see from the beginning what mould his life will take… The power to work on faith is what distinguishes great men.”

—  Charles Cooley

Source: Human Nature and the Social Order, 1902, p. 111

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