“Fortunately analysis is not the only way to resolve inner conflicts. Life itself still remains a very effective therapist… The therapy effected by life itself is not, however, within one's control. Neither hardships nor friendships nor religious experience can be arranged to meet the needs of the particular individual. Life as a therapist is ruthless; circumstances that are helpful to one neurotic may entirely crush another.”
Karen Horney Our Inner Conflicts (1945)
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“To be tested is good. The challenged life may be the best therapist.”

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“Friendship's the wine of life; but friendship new
(Not such was his) is neither strong nor pure.”
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Letter to Lord Palmerston (9 October 1833), quoted in E. A. Smith, Lord Grey. 1764-1845 (Alan Sutton, 1996), p. 284.
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