“Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at.”
John Berger (1926–2017) British painter, writer and art critic
Man and Wife - Vol. II [Bernhard Tauchnitz, 1870] ( p. 235 https://books.google.com/books?id=Dp-ZFYLTW6QC&pg=PA235) <br class="br">Also in Wilkie Collins: Man of Mystery and Imagination by Alexander Grinstein [International Universities Press, 2003, 0-823-66681-6] (p. 155)
“Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at.”
John Berger (1926–2017) British painter, writer and art critic
“Women tell men things that men are not very likely to find out for themselves.”
Robertson Davies (1913–1995) Canadian journalist, playwright, professor, critic, and novelist
"Robertson Davies: Beyond the Visible World".
Conversations with Robertson Davies (1989)
“Women who love themselves are threatening; but men who love real women, more so.”
Naomi Wolf book The Beauty Myth
Source: The Beauty Myth
“No longer can I complain that the unrighteous man reaches the highest pinnacle of success. He is raised aloft that he may be hurled down in more headlong ruin.”
Iam non ad culmina rerum<br/>iniustos crevisse queror; tolluntur in altum<br/>ut lapsu graviore ruant.
Claudian (370–404) Roman Latin poet
Iam non ad culmina rerum<br>iniustos crevisse queror; tolluntur in altum<br>ut lapsu graviore ruant. <br class="br"> In Rufinum, Bk. I, lines 21-23 http://penelope.uchicago.edu/Thayer/L/Roman/Texts/Claudian/In_Rufinum/1*.html#21.
“It is in the best interests of the human race, and of women themselves, for men to be strong.”
Camille Paglia (1947) American writer
Source: Vamps and Tramps (1994), "No Law in the Arena: A Pagan Theory of Sexuality", p. 85
Context: Because boys lack a biological marker like menstruation, to be man is to be not female. Contemporary feminism called this "misogyny," but it was wrong. Masculine identity is embattled and fragile. In the absence of opportunity for heroic physical action, as in the modern office world, women's goodwill is crucial for preserving the male ego, which requires, alas, daily maintenance. It is in the best interests of the human race, and of women themselves, for men to be strong.
François Fénelon (1651–1715) Catholic bishop
Quiconque est capable de mentir est indigne d'être compté au nombre des hommes; et quiconque ne sait pas se taire est indigne de gouverner.
Bk. 3, p. 14; translation pp. 34-5.
Les aventures de Télémaque (1699)
“Running to Mommy and Daddy on the campus grievance committee is unworthy of strong women.”
Camille Paglia (1947) American writer
Source: Sex, Art and American Culture : New Essays (1992), Rape and Modern Sex War, p. 53
“The story of the human race is the story of men and women selling themselves short.”
Abraham Maslow (1908–1970) American psychologist
As quoted in Road Signs for Success (1993) by Jim Whitt, p. 61.
1970s and later