“Life has a tendency to obfuscate and bewilder,
Such as fating us to spend the first part of our lives
being embarrassed by our parents and the last part
being embarrassed by our childer.”

—  Ogden Nash

"What I Know About Life"
Versus (1949)

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American poet 1902–1971

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