“He also said we should carve in the year and place where I was born, but I said no. As a man dies many times before he's dead, so does he wend from birth to birth until, by grace, he comes alive at last.”

—  Frederick Buechner , book Godric

Godric (1980)

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Poet, novelist, short story writer, theologian 1926

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