
“When you have to make a choice and don't make it, that is in itself a choice.”
"A Man of the People", p. 104; first published in Asimov's (1995)
Four Ways to Forgiveness (1995)
“When you have to make a choice and don't make it, that is in itself a choice.”
"A Prospect of Europe", 1997 speech at the University of New South Wales.
Source: The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are
“A Dialogue with Simone de Beauvoir,” in Betty Friedan, It Changed My Life: Writings on the Women’s Movement, (New York: Random House, 1976), p. 397 https://books.google.com/books?id=iv4-Qy82BJ0C&pg=PA397&lpg=PA397.
General sources
Interview with Windy City Queercast (5 February 2011) http://www.windycityqueercast.com/audio.html?ID=535
“Our lives are fashioned by our choices. First we make our choices. Then our choices make us.”