Foreword http://www.bartleby.com/55/100.html 
1910s, Theodore Roosevelt — An Autobiography (1913) 
Context: Facing the immense complexity of modern social and industrial conditions, there is need to use freely and unhesitatingly the collective power of all of us; and yet no exercise of collective power will ever avail if the average individual does not keep his or her sense of personal duty, initiative, and responsibility. There is need to develop all the virtues that have the state for their sphere of action; but these virtues are as dust in a windy street unless back of them lie the strong and tender virtues of a family life based on the love of the one man for the one woman and on their joyous and fearless acceptance of their common obligation to the children that are theirs. There must be the keenest sense of duty, and with it must go the joy of living; there must be shame at the thought of shirking the hard work of the world, and at the same time delight in the many-sided beauty of life.
                                    
“It must be hard to be exclusively social and entirely friendless at the same time.”
At Last, Chapter 1
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                                        Variant: If neurotic is wanting two mutually exclusive things at one and the same time, then I'm neurotic as hell. I'll be flying back and forth between one mutually exclusive thing and another for the rest of my days. 
Source: The Bell Jar (1963), Ch. 8
                                    
Religiosity Should Cross the Borders and Boundaries http://lightoftruth.in/coverstory/religiosity-cross-borders-boundaries/ (15 July 2017)
1970's, Every Man an Artist: Talks at Documenta 5', 1972
“Politics means a strong slow drilling of hard boards, with passion and judgment at the same time.”
                                        
                                        German: "Die Politik bedeutet ein starkes langsames Bohren von harten Brettern mit Leidenschaft und Augenmaß zugleich." 
"Politics as a Vocation" (1919)
                                    
“Collectivist Thinking Is Rife in the USA”, Strike The Root, March 1, 2004 http://www.strike-the-root.com/content/collectivist-thinking-rife-usa
http://www.firmstand.org/articles/separation_of_church_and_state.html