“Identification [with the other] is difficult but precious. It involves doing violence to yourself. Yet Scripture says that "heaven is taken by violence" to oneself [Luke 16:16]. To identify oneself with the other is to love him beyond words, a total giving of oneself in truth.”

—  Catherine Doherty

"Living the Mandate", p. 36
Unfinished Pilgrimage (1995)

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