“Love does not make itself felt in the desire for copulation (a desire that extends to an infinite number of women) but in the desire for shared sleep (a desire limited to one woman).”

— Milan Kundera , book The Unbearable Lightness of Being

Source: The Unbearable Lightness of Being

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Czech author of Czech and French literature 1929–2023

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