“Why talk about what we want? That is childish. Absurd. Of course, you are interested in what you want. You are eternally interested in it. But no one else is. The rest of us are just like you: we are interested in what we want.”

— Dale Carnegie , How to Win Friends and Influence People

Source: How to Win Friends and Influence People

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American writer and lecturer 1888–1955

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