“When a person should be spoken with, and you don't speak with them, you lose them. When a person shouldn't be spoken with and you speak to them, you waste your breath. The wise do not lose people, nor do they waste their breath.”

—  Confucius

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Chinese teacher, editor, politician, and philosopher -551–-479 BC

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