„Is it painful to be the person who waits? Or is it more painful to be the person who makes others wait? Either way, there's no need to wait anymore. That's what is most painful." - Osamu Dazai“

Source: Run, Melos! and Other Stories

Last update May 22, 2020. History
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Japanese author 1909 - 1948

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