“Furthermore, worrying about people and problems doesn't help. It doesn't solve problems, it doesn't help other people, and it doesn't help us. It is wasted energy.”
Source: Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
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“If President Bush doesn't help us, these terrorists will damage the U. S. and Europe very soon.”
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“Government doesn't cure problems. It aggravates them.”
Lift Her Up, Tenderly, Pine Tree Press (December 1, 1976) p.196