“The first symptom of true love in a man is timidity, in a young woman, boldness. This is surprising, and yet nothing is more simple. It is the two sexes tending to approach each other and assuming each the other's qualities.”

Source: Les Misérables

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French poet, novelist, and dramatist 1802–1885

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