“A man's dignity isn't measured by the people he has around him when he's at the peak of his success, but by his ability not to forget those who helped him when his need was greatest.”

—  Paulo Coelho , book The Winner Stands Alone

Source: The Winner Stands Alone

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Brazilian lyricist and novelist 1947

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