“Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.”

—  Confucius

Attributed in Lillet Walters (2000), Secrets of Superstar Speakers; attributed in English sources as a "Japanese proverb" as early as 1924
Misattributed, Not Chinese

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Chinese teacher, editor, politician, and philosopher -551–-479 BC

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