Source: Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl—A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
“Your problem isn't the problem, it's your attitude about the problem.”
Variant: The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem. Got that? -Coach Brevin
Source: The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants
“Sometimes success isn't about making the right decision, it's more about making some decision.”
Source: The Leader Who Had No Title: A Modern Fable on Real Success in Business and in Life
“This isn't about love as in caring. This is about property as in ownership.”
Variant: This isn't about music. This is about winning.
Source: Lullaby (2002), Chapter 3
Source: Fight Club
Context: You turn up your music to hide the noise. Other people turn up their music to hide yours. You turn up yours again. Everyone buys a bigger stereo system. This is the arms race of sound You don't win with a lot of treble. This isn't about quality. It's about volume. This isn't about music. This is about winning. You stomp the competition with the bass line. You rattle windows. You drop the melody line, and shout the lyrics. You put in foul language and come down hard on each cussword. You dominate. This is really about power.
“But compassion isn't about solutions. It's about giving all the love that you've got.”
Source: Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar
Source: Father and Child Reunion (2001), p. 239.
“Love isn't about what we did yesterday; it's about what we do today and tomorrow and the day after”
Source: The Next American Revolution: Sustainable Activism for the Twenty-First Century
[‘Failures are positive steps for success', https://www.deccanherald.com/failures-are-positive-steps-700395.html, Deccan Herald, 28 October 2018]
“People love you when you're successful, but if you're not, who really cares about you?”
As quoted in Boxing Monthly http://www.boxing-monthly.co.uk/content/0008/three.htm.
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