“No one ever has time to examine himself honestly, and most people look no further than their neighbors' eyes, in which they may see their own reflection.”

—  Françoise Sagan , book Dans un mois, dans un an

Dans un mois, dans un an (1957, Those Without Shadows, translated 1957)

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