“Do not keep saying to yourself, if you can possibly avoid it, "But how can it be like that?"”
Richard Feynman book The Character of Physical Law
because you will get "down the drain", into a blind alley from which nobody has yet escaped. Nobody knows how it can be like that.
Concerning the apparent absurdities of quantum behavior.
Source: The Character of Physical Law (1965), chapter 6, “Probability and Uncertainty — the Quantum Mechanical View of Nature,” p. 129