“Having my law the seventh time disobey'd,
I struck him, and dismiss'd
With hard words and unkiss'd,
—His Mother, who was patient, being dead.”

—  Coventry Patmore

The Toys, p. 50.
The Unknown Eros and Other Poems (1877)

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