“Sometimes a neighbor whom we have disliked a lifetime for his arrogance and conceit lets fall a single commonplace remark that shows us another side, another man, really; a man uncertain, and puzzled, and in the dark like ourselves.”

— Willa Cather , book Shadows on the Rock

Shadows on the Rock (1931), Epilogue

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American writer and novelist 1873–1947

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