“Memory is the only thing that binds you to earlier selves; for the rest, you become an entirely different being every decade or so, sloughing off the old persona, renewing and moving on. You are not who you were, he told her, nor who you will be.”

—  Sebastian Faulks, book Charlotte Gray

Source: Charlotte Gray

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