“Before and after… I heard a thousand times that a boy, or a man, can't make you happy, that you have to be happy on your own before you can be happy with another person. All I can say is, I wish it were true.”

—  Curtis Sittenfeld, book Prep

Source: Prep

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Novelist, short story writer 1975

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