“There’s a belief that to take care of someone else, or to let someone else take care of you—that both are inherently unfeminist. I don’t agree. There’s no shame in devoting yourself to another person, as long as he devotes himself to you in return.”

— Curtis Sittenfeld , book Eligible

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Novelist, short story writer 1975

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