“Change for your own sake, if you must, not for what you imagine another will ask of you.”

“I can accept no responsibility for any changes in your existence, miraculous or otherwise. You must take responsibility for your own life. You must have your own life because if you haven’t had at least that, what have you had?”

Martin Firrell (1963) British artist and activist

“If you must change to garner the love of another, their love was never for you, but another.”

Gandolfo – (RJ Intindola)

“You are what you are and you are where you are because of what has gone into your mind. You change what you are and you change where you are by changing what goes into your mind.”

Zig Ziglar (1926–2012) American motivational speaker

“I don’t write this letter to put bitterness into your heart, but to pluck it out of mine. For my own sake I must forgive you.”

Oscar Wilde book De Profundis

“You dull your own perceptions
with false imaginings and do not grasp
what would be clear but for your preconceptions.”

Dante Alighieri book Paradiso

“Eleanor: I'm tired, John, am asking you to keep this charade mercifully brief… for my sake if not for your own.
John: For your sake? There was a time when I'd have done anything on God's Earth for you, just to get to acknowledge I was even alive! But now? You're too late, Mother, years too late!”

Sharon Kay Penman book Here Be Dragons

“We don't ask you to believe in our ability to bring change, rather, we ask you to believe in yours.”

Barack Obama (1961) 44th President of the United States of America

“No matter what challenging situation you may find yourself in, imagine the best outcome of it and feel it! When you do, you will change the circumstances, and you will change the situation into what you want!”

Rhonda Byrne (1951) Australian writer and producer

“You must change your life.”

Rainer Maria Rilke (1875–1926) Austrian poet and writer