“We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person.”

—  W. Somerset Maugham, book The Summing Up

Source: The Summing Up (1938), p. 306

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British playwright, novelist, short story writer 1874–1965

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