“I would say that the surest measure of a man's or a woman's maturity is the harmony, style, joy, and dignity he creates in his marriage, and the pleasure and inspiration he provides for his spouse.”

— Benjamin Spock

Quoted in Older & Wiser Edited by G. B. Dianda and B. J. Hofmayer (1995)

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