“The chains of wedlock are so heavy that it takes two to carry them; sometimes three.”

— Alexandre Dumas

Les chaînes du mariage sont si lourdes qu'il faut être deux pour les porter; quelquefois trois. Attributed to Dumas in: Elizabeth Abbott, Une histoire des maîtresses http://books.google.gr/books?id=fEsPUICzDY4C&dq=, Les Éditions Fides, 2004, p. 16. Attributed

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