“The real offence, as she ultimately perceived, was her having a mind of her own at all. Her mind was to be his — attached to his own like a small garden-plot to a deer-park.”

Source: The Portrait of a Lady (1881), Ch. XLII.

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American novelist, short story author, and literary critic 1843–1916

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