“You shouldn't judge someone until you've walk a mile through an underground tunnel in her uncomfortable shoes”

“If you could walk a mile in my shoes you'd be crazy too.”

“You can't really get to know a person until you get in their shoes and walk around in them.”

“When we love someone our love becomes demonstrable or real only through our exertion - through the fact that for that someone (or for ourself) we take an extra step or walk an extra mile. Love is not effortless. To the contrary, love is effortful.”

“Don't judge a man until you have walked two moons in his moccasins.”

“It all began with a shoe on the wall. A shoe on the wall shouldn't be there at all.”

“You don't know a woman until you've met her in court.”

“The truth is, you can never really know a man until you've loaned him money. And you can never know a woman until you've slept in her bed.”

“Underground. Which I hate. Like mines and tunnels and 13. Underground, where I dread dying, which is stupid because even if I die aboveground, the next thing they'll do is bury me underground anyway.”

“It's a totally inhospitable place, you shouldn't be here—the sun—you live about three quarters of a mile from it; I've seen insects walking around with kneepads; you fling yourselves into the sea when you're not actually walking around audibly crackling in the heat. And the sea is full of jellyfish, sharks and other things who hate you, but you persist in living here. So you know, it's a jail you live in. It's lovely, you've done wonderful things with it, but you're all still in denial.”