“It is difficult for a woman to define her feelings in language which is chiefly made by men to express theirs.”

—  Thomas Hardy , book Far from the Madding Crowd

Source: Far from the Madding Crowd (1874), Ch. 51

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English novelist and poet 1840–1928

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