“If a man ignoring a woman’s verbal “no” is committing date rape, then a woman who says “no” with her verbal language but “yes” with her body language is committing date fraud. And a woman who continues to be sexual even after she says “no” is committing date lying.”

— Warren Farrell, book The Myth of Male Power

p 314.
The Myth of Male Power (1993), Part III: Government as substitute husband

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