1950s, Conquering Self-centeredness (1957)
Context: I’ve seen people who discovered a great meaning in their jobs and they became so absorbed in that that they didn’t have time to become self-centered. They loved their job. And the great prayer that anyone could pray at that point is: “O God, help me to love my job as this individual loves his or hers. O God, help me to give my self to my work and to my job and to my allegiance as this individual does.” And this is the way out. And I think this is what [Ralph Waldo] Emerson meant when he said: “O, see how the masses of men worry themselves into nameless graves, while here and there, some great unselfish soul forgets himself into immortality.” And this becomes a point of balance when you can forget yourself into immortality. You’re not so absorbed in self, but you are absorbed in something beyond self.
“Beyond a given point man is not helped by more "knowing", but only by living and doing in a partly self-forgetful way.”
The Denial of Death (1973), The Present Outcome of Psychoanalysis
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Literary Remains
“There were more ways to live than the ones given by one's superiors”
Source: Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West
“Talent is God-given; be humble. Fame is man-given; be thankful. Conceit is self-given; be careful.”
They Call Me Coach (1972)
Variant: Talent is God-given; be humble. Fame is man-given; be thankful. Conceit is self-given; be careful.
1950s, Conquering Self-centeredness (1957)
“Man is the only living being who has a developed self-awareness and death-awareness.”
Mourning and Funerals—For Whom (1977)