“I tell people to monitor their self-pity. Self-pity is very unattractive.”
Patty Duke (1946–2016) American actress
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The Rahotep series, Book 3: Egypt: The Book of Chaos (2011)
Context: Death makes us strangers to ourselves... Do not indulge yourself in a self-pitying, self-gratifying revenge. More than likely you would simply end up dead as well.
“I tell people to monitor their self-pity. Self-pity is very unattractive.”
Patty Duke (1946–2016) American actress
W. H. Auden book The Dyer's Hand
"Interlude: West's Disease", p. 243
The Dyer's Hand, and Other Essays (1962)
“Self-denial is indulgence of a propensity to forego.”
Ambrose Bierce (1842–1914) American editorialist, journalist, short story writer, fabulist, and satirist
Sometimes quoted with the spelling "forgo", but Bierce used "forego" in his 1911 Collected Works
Epigrams
Richard Kadrey (1957) San Francisco-based novelist, freelance writer, and photographer
Source: Sandman Slim
Mahatma Gandhi (1869–1948) pre-eminent leader of Indian nationalism during British-ruled India
Article http://books.google.com/books?id=lHnjAAAAMAAJ&q=%22Remember+that+there+is+always+a+limit+to+self-indulgence+but+none+to+self-restraint+and+let+us+daily+progress+in+that+direction%22 in Young India (2 February 1928, Volume 10, Page 35) <br class="br">Posthumous publications (1950s and later)
“The antidote for self-pity and negative thinking is gratitude.”
Jay Samit (1961) American businessman
Future Proofing You (2021)