
“I tell people to monitor their self-pity. Self-pity is very unattractive.”
ibid
The Rahotep series, Book 3: Egypt: The Book of Chaos (2011)
Context: Death makes us strangers to ourselves... Do not indulge yourself in a self-pitying, self-gratifying revenge. More than likely you would simply end up dead as well.
“I tell people to monitor their self-pity. Self-pity is very unattractive.”
“Self-denial is indulgence of a propensity to forego.”
Sometimes quoted with the spelling "forgo", but Bierce used "forego" in his 1911 Collected Works
Epigrams
Source: Sandman Slim
Article http://books.google.com/books?id=lHnjAAAAMAAJ&q=%22Remember+that+there+is+always+a+limit+to+self-indulgence+but+none+to+self-restraint+and+let+us+daily+progress+in+that+direction%22 in Young India (2 February 1928, Volume 10, Page 35)
Posthumous publications (1950s and later)
“The antidote for self-pity and negative thinking is gratitude.”
Future Proofing You (2021)