“An engaged woman is always more agreeable than a disengaged. She is satisfied with herself. Her cares are over, and she feels that she may exert all her powers of pleasing without suspicion. All is safe with a lady engaged: no harm can be done.”

— Jane Austen , book Mansfield Park

Mansfield Park (1814)
Works, Mansfield Park

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English novelist 1775–1817

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