“Love is the difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.”
“Identification [with the other] is difficult but precious. It involves doing violence to yourself. Yet Scripture says that "heaven is taken by violence" to oneself [Luke 16:16]. To identify oneself with the other is to love him beyond words, a total giving of oneself in truth.”
"Living the Mandate", p. 36
Unfinished Pilgrimage (1995)
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Religious order founder; Servant of God 1896–1985Related quotes

“It is so easy to convince others; it is so difficult to convince oneself.”
"The Sublime and the Good", in the Chicago Review, Vol. 13 Issue 3 (Autumn 1959) p. 51.
Source: Existentialists and Mystics Writings on Philosophy and Literature

“The price of hating other human beings is loving oneself less.”
"On Becoming"
1960s, Soul on Ice (1968)

Source: Mystery and Manners: Occasional Prose
Ira Schneider (1969), , Arts Magazine, Vol. 44, p. 21; As cited in: David Antin. Radical Coherency: Selected Essays on Art and Literature, 1966 to 2005. 2012, p. 81-82: On the Wipe Cycle