“To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart.”

—  Eleanor Roosevelt

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American politician, diplomat, and activist, and First Lady… 1884–1962
Eleanor Roosevelt quote: “To handle yourself, use your head; to handle others, use your heart.”

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